Monday, September 20, 2004

明白真好

人活在世上,原本都想求个明白,对人生、对事物、对周围的一切。我自己也不例外。  
 
形成这一理念已有好长一段时间了,我一直在这个既浅显而又深奥的问题面前想弄清“明白”的道理。也许,有人说我在犯傻,明白不明白是你自个儿的事,值得揪心揉肠地去折腾吗?的确,在我的心底“明白”是我人生的经纬线,它能无声地左右你什么时候该在格子里,什么时候该走哪一条线,我觉得不弄清它,就是犯了傻也还不知道自己在做傻事。

在我们这个大千世界里,好多事情象是蒙上了一层不易看透的面纱,有些人就不愿意用他那抬手之力去揭示它,总想万事万物永远是明明白白地向他展示着,怨天、怨地、怨人、最终怨得还是自己。   

我们每个人所经历的人生道路决不是千篇一律的,在人生相伴相行的有限的时空里,有欢歌也难免有哀愁、有相聚也难免有分手、有和谐也难免有碰撞、有平缓也难免有激流。工作了数年,接触的人也不算太少,也见过不少的事情,但有些我始终明白不了其中的道理。   

我想每个人的一生都有自己的色彩,有的人把一生看的很平淡其内在却光彩照人,有的人却不是这样,仿佛在这个世界上惟他独尊,惟他光芒四射。工作不顺,升迁太慢,他觉得是生不逢时,没有遇上知己。工作分歧,出现矛盾,他认为别人水平太低,能力太差。甚至走在路上不小心与行人的肩膀擦了一下,他也要讨个说法,占个上风。

如果说久远的历史与我们当代人之间有着一层难以透视的距离,那么如今摆在我们面前的一切应该说是最清楚不过的了。想“明白”其实也很容易,把功名看实一些,把地位看淡一些,把金钱看轻一些,把自己看透一些,把……. .那时人生的方舟自然平稳、悠闲。   

听不少朋友说,人活在世上真累。有时我也有同感,寻求了好多年,我终于找到了“药方”。那就是“明白真好”。

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